Don’t waste time being fearful. Go for that job that you’re certain you’re not gonna get. What’s the worse that can happen? You are rejected, but you gain interview experience. Self-doubt is really a waste of time.

To really feel more confident and to get a clearer vision of how to establish what things in life your most confident version of yourself would have. What would they look like? How would they carry themselves or do things differently from you now? Create a vision board or write it down so you can understand what exactly you want and start working towards that right now. 

What is the thing that is most holding you back from being the best version of yourself? You might be tempted to say something along the lines of time, energy, money, or opportunity. Perhaps you feel limited by other people?

A Goddess does not dream up some fantasy future that she wants to come true. She does not obsess over what the guy is or isn’t doing. She will not analyse his behaviour. She has no deluded beliefs that being with him will somehow make her happier, more complete or make her life any better than it is right now. She has fun in the moment and enjoys her interactions with her man. When she is not with him she’s not really thinking about him at all.

Step 1: Find your passion. 

Because you need a reason to live. If you do not have one, you get depressed. You become lonely. You develop suicidal thoughts. You feel worthless.

Who are you? We identify with many things, but this is just a process in our minds. This identification causes us to suffer.